Tuesday, May 30, 2017


What you tell yourself about yourself, about your life, about your limitations, you will believe. 

-Iyanla Vanzant

Thursday, April 27, 2017

Get Excited About Change

Do not be driven by other people's agenda unless it follows the law of physics

Thursday, April 20, 2017

Today's Love Affirmation

We will walk in love, grace, faith and trust on our journey to love.
-The Poetry Writer

Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Tuesday, March 21, 2017


Everybody you speak your vision to will not always understand it. A Limited mindset can often hinder you. Remove yourself from procrastinating people they will hinder you. If you have a dream and vision understand this; to start on that dream know that you will lose friends who don't understand the vision you're seeking to obtain and turn into reality, you may lose your relationship if they can't handle your hard work to get to the vision. DONT LET THAT STOP YOU! We often stop to appease others and hold on to relationships that hinder our progression. STOP!
It may hurt but you'll be fine because pain develops into strength. It can and will get lonely on your way to the top. Realize that the people who belong in your life will stay. They will stay and encourage you through the long nights, early mornings, sweat, tears, and sacrifices. I know this from experience and I'm still working on my vision. I no longer work around others but I work for myself because only I can get myself to the vision I see.  ✌🏾🎀

Thursday, March 16, 2017


Sometimes it is often hard to see your worth through a heart break but in time things will get better. It may seem as if it won't or even if you cannot go on. However, take time to learn from it and heal. Understand that everything gets better with time. As humans we experience many emotions but it is the tapping into the emotions and understanding them which makes us stronger and better as individuals. Don't stay in a depressed state get up and push. There was a life you had before the heart break. Stay grounded and be optimistic. Open yourself up for growth and the SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN. We have all been there and we have all overcome it.

Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Every aspect of creativity is an elusive subject, intangible, enigmatic, defying the hammer blows of pedantry, the cage of statistics, and the tortuous vivisection of deconstruction.

Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Turn from your rage !
Do not lose your temper it only leads to harm.
Psalm 37:8

Friday, March 3, 2017

Clean out your closet!!!

Get rid of the negative people that are around you. Negativity does nothing but consume you and you will in turn become negative. When you surround yourself with negativity you cannot get anything positive out of your situation. When you place yourself around a group of positive people, you can grow.
If you have dreams an aspirations you will need to place yourself in an environment that will allow you to conquer those dreams. Positive environments and people are a big part of that!

Monday, February 27, 2017

Forgotten History

The stitches in this cloth represent strength
She made this skirt stitch by stitch
Tied it and dies it
Sitting in a chair or on a dirt floor she uses her hand to stitch what now clothe my brown skinned body
Her hands which were made to be creative
She uses them to hold her child up to her bosom to feed
Bosoms which fed several white children leaving her own to thirst
She uses her hands to hold her loved ones
She used those hands to fight off the white men who chose to enslave her
Hands that were used to hold the basket on top of her head as she walked through the land of Africa with pride in her brown skin
Those hands were used to pull on the chains that were not understood around her neck
Hands given to her by God himself to use when she tied her wrap around her head
Now left to pick cotton
Brown skin she was once proud of is now what she questions
Treated like an animal they looked upon her as a baby factory to create more workers in the field
Hands she was gifted with to clothe her kin was not used to clothed white women and their children and some field workers
Hands used to pick cotton were once used to love and provide affection
Her body now used by white men for their own pleasure her hands are used to wash away the pain and memories of the force

History somehow forgotten
Black women ashamed to wear clothes from their African ancestors
Racist against them trying to separate their identities
History forgotten black women are ashamed to feed their babies from their bosom in public
Bosoms used to feed white children
Black women now displaying there bodies as Jezebels
A name derived from history during the slave period for the black women who were attractive labeled as promiscuous and raped by many

Just throwing a few things out there for those who have forgotten our history

Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Freedom from you

You may have hurt me but I am no longer a slave to your world
The scars that's left is only a reminder of what not to accept in my future
Pain fades just as you will in time
I am more than a conqueror
I am fearless and carefree
You're officially an afterthought
I am too strong and too sophisticated to be bought by your lies

Daily Dose of Inspiration

You have to let go of your disappointments, let go of your failures, and let those doors totally close behind you. Step forward, into the future that God has for you, knowing there's nothing you can do about the past disappointments. you cannot change the past, but you can do something about the future.

Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Daily Push

Do not be dependent upon others to obtain your goals. Be determined to reach them with the belief in God and assurance in yourself that you can do it on your. More often than not we rely on others to help and give us guidance into goals that they won't be a part of and end up disappointed in the end because we did not obtain them.

Monday, February 20, 2017

Sometimes I just want to be close to you.
To feel your breath against my neck and your your lips against mine.
I crave the social and physical intimacy.
The social stability and connection that we both want.
Why must we clash when we can bond?
To be everything yet so far away leaves me empty.
Dropped in an abyss that only you can release me from.

The snakes are no longer in the grass
It is only you and I
The walls are down but you haven't crossed over
To be vulnerable and empty is a place of loneliness
Hopeless yet still full of hope
That is me

Daily Dose of Inspiration

When disappointment or rejection knocks you down get back up and go again. We give up too easily on our dreams. We need to understand that just as God supernaturally opens doors sometimes God supernaturally closes doors. And when God closes a door, it's always because he has something better in store. So just because you've come to a dead end, that's not the time to give up. Find a different route and keep pressing forward. the dream in your heart may be bigger than the environment that you're in. Sometimes you have to get out of that environment in order to see your dream fulfilled.

                                                                                                                             -Joel Olsteen

Tuesday, February 14, 2017


I am creative. I am talented, I am valuable.
I have a bright future. my best days are still out in front of me.  
Dwelling on negative thoughts about yourself will keep you from becoming all God has created you to be.
-Joel Olsteen

Monday, January 23, 2017

Quote of inspiration

Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other;s faults because of your love.

Ephesians 4:2

We must learn to be patient with one another in order to grow in our relationships with family, friends, and spouse's. We cannot expect others to think as we do and act as we do or we will become unhappy and develop an unnecessary resentment. Love conquers all and nothing can be achieved through anger. Develop a positive mindset and positive will come to you. A positive mind is a strong mind.

The devil plays on the idle mind and the negative mind so make a choice regarding the person you would like to be.


I was lost in my misery
Trapped by opinion
Rebellious because of judgement
no more will I cripple my mind to appease another
no more will I sacrifice happiness based on another's opinion
I cannot satisfy another and claim happiness

The chains are broken from caring for others depiction of me
My perception is all that matters
Happiness is found in oneself not in others
 I fought a fight in a battle that wasn't my own
Wanting to fit in where I did not belong

The journey set for me is not for others to approval
My blessing has been made especially for me
My strength is intimidating
My mind is my weapon
His image resides in me
I will no longer open myself up for others created glory for me
I was not placed here to take part in others catastrophe's

Sunday, January 22, 2017

Food for thought

Happiness is created by you.
We control what it is that we let into our atmosphere.
When we allow negativity and ignorance into our atmosphere we become that and we begin to display those behaviors.
We must learn to bring and have more positivity within our atmosphere.
Be mindful of your friends, entertainment, and conversations that our within our atmosphere.
They play a major part on our behaviors.

We must learn to keep our personal business private and to discuss our issues not with others looking for solution but through prayer because when we allow others into our personal lives we open ourselves up to the negative opinions and judgment which changes out moods and behaviors had we learn to handle it on our own these things would not occur. sometimes looking for a solution from others only brings forth confusion.

BE great
BE happy
BE blessed

Wednesday, January 4, 2017

The imperfect image of love

Maybe I am looking for a fairy tale
Living out of reality
I am sure people would question how could I love someone who made me want to give my life for just a conversation with them
I may want true love a little too much
They say that those who have had a dream about it, achieved it; even when others laughed in their faces

I do not care if I play the fool
I am willing to play the fool for you because I believe that we can conquer all
I have tried to hate you
I have tried to forget about you
I end up hurting myself
You're my lifeline
Without you I am dead

I wonder if I am really what you want
Do you really love me
Do you want someone else
Should I listen to others
I have so many questions
I have cried so many tears I wished you kissed away
Cried so many tears I wish I did not have to shed

Maybe I want you so bad I may just have become crazy
But the craziest people have been the most intelligent successful and inventors
I am not ashamed
Pain comes with love
I just want a deep love
A healthy love
A love with you

I listen to the blues and my mind is on you
Love sick
Falling a part

I have an image of  you that you may not even have for yourself
My image sees the greatness behind the harsh words, behind the mask of solidarity you portray
I am a simple woman who doesn't require much I don't need anything but love, smile and a laugh.
I want someone to cry with me and not leave when I show weakness
I believe we have a strength that we have not found
Even if I am wrong I still have faith

Wanting to be someone's everything can tear you apart when you don't feel good enough and when you want them to see your greatness
You cannot make everyone see your light
Just wanted you to see mines

Thursday, December 8, 2016

Today's Quote

"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change."Charles Darwin

Monday, December 5, 2016

Monday, November 21, 2016

Monday Motivation

One half of Knowing what you want is knowing what you must give up before you get it. Change always cost you something, if not monetarily, then in time, energy, and creativity. In fact, if change doesn't cost you anything, then it isn't real change. As you consider how to make the changes needed to improve and grow, it is important to measure the cost of change compared to the cost of the status quo. Change = Growth & Change = Grief (GOD YESSSSSSS). Don't rock the boat. Sink and start over. If you desire to be creative and do something really innovative, that's sometimes what it takes. You must destroy the old to create something new. You can't allow yourself to be paralyzed by the idea of change. - The Difference Maker

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

Truth Hurts

There is no longer anytime to wallow in what could've would've and should've happened
This is a time for those who haven't started educating their children to do so
This is a time to start a movement of economic recession
Support your own and stand for something than reality tv
Learn live out your dreams and stop living in the shadows of others
We were not placed here to wait on handouts
Together we are strong and the only way to do that is to glorify each other and support one another
Stop placing your money in the wrong pockets
Racism and ignorance need to cease
We cant be heard if we are constantly in line for materialistic things but fail to stand in line for a movement to make change
Refusing to educate our children outside of the school systems need to cease
They need to know about the sundown towns, the years of being looked at as we are not human, segregated, spat on, enslaved, and called super predators.
We did not ask to come here an be enslaved and treated as if we weren't made of the same dust and breath as those who are here along with us by the creator.
Stop being content with disappointment and do something other than complain like make a change.
Stop supporting businesses that pay the lobbyist to make laws that turn against us.

Monday, October 31, 2016

Motivation Monday

Do you have a plan for personal growth? Are you doing anything intentionally and strategically to better yourself? Growth is not automatic. You can have success but that doesn't mean you reached your highest potential.There is always room for increase. We have to stir up the desire to learn. We should have a goal to grow and learn something new everyday. In order to continue advancing in life we have to take responsibility for our own growth. 
-Andrea Jackson

Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Learn your Partner

Relationships can sometimes become overwhelming. I have found that through reading and having and open mind you can change the feelings of being overwhelmed into feelings of security and love. Instead of becoming frustrated with your mate because you do not understand their behavior and changes try to look at yourself and self reflect.
Ask yourself if you have changed anything about how you have been engaging with them.for every action there is a reaction.
Is God in your relationship?
Do you study the word?
Are you both on the same page?

Make time to pray together and learn each other.
We often do not take time to listen and learn our mate. We often develop serious problems in our relationship because we haven't thoroughly listened to what it is that our mate needs to be fulfilled.
Stop trying to change them and learn how to accept them and love them pass the words I Love You.

If you cannot accept the little things about them you wont accept the unexpected things that may occur with them later on in the relationship and without acceptance there  will be no order, structure, or foundation.
Without those things you have no relationship. catch the things that you wont accept early and either leave or stay but if you stay then make sure that you are always communicating and have an understanding. You want to be on the same page and have the same level of understanding and learn to agree to disagree. we cant look for us in a person we are all different opposites attract and the attraction to the opposite is because it opens the door to balance.

Where I am weak you are strong and vice versa.

If you are looking for someone like you be ready to be alone because there is no perfect person YOU are not perfect and if that is the case DATE YOURSELF!

"Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.
Colossians 3:23

Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Tunnel Vision

I apologize if the tunnel vision I have on my goals discourages you.
However, your criticism encourages me;
It keeps me focused on my journey to freedom;
Living my life and not living through others in the shadows.
I will not make time to gossip about what everyone else is doing meanwhile sitting back earning and achieving nothing.
Why stand still when I can walk forward?
I apologize if my tunnel vision scares you from wanting to encourage me because you don't want to see me move forward successfully.
You'd rather me shop, gossip, and watch reality tv with you instead of be productive.
I thought that we were here to be productive.
Since humans were created we have always been productive, on missions, seeing visions, and focusing on our ambitions.
It seems as though many of us have become lax and wanting handouts and to do nothing more than to receive money for work we have not completed or even lifted a finger for
looking for handouts and feeding those who have a dream with discourage and doubt.

I will not be taken off from my focus even if it means the loss of friends because only on God can I depend to help me reach my goal in the end.

Monday, October 17, 2016

Quote of the Week

In order to build a strong foundation and successful relationship that last we must learn to accept the person for who they are and be willing to learn and study that person in order to get to know them and know how to handle the conflicts and unexpected circumstances that may occur. Be able to look pass the superficial and incorporate a spiritual relationship.

Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Trickle down

Trickling down my thigh
The wetness from my hive
Thinking about soft sighs and an intimate high
Your skin against mine

Hands moving
Grabbing and pulling the sheets
You’re deep

Deeply penetrating inside
It glides back and forth
Covered in wet silk

Hitting the hilt
Hitting my g spot
I climax

Beads of sweat on my breast across your chest and on our backs
Sweat on my stomach
You place soft kisses there

Grabbing onto my hips
You pull flower forward and indulge
Wrapping your lips around and suckling on the inside
You release the nectar
Grabbing onto your head pushing your face in closer
Screaming out in engages in ecstasy
Pulling your hair
You make it more intense

I release and you’ve relaxed

Wednesday Wisdom

Be careful of the company you keep. Everyone within your circle may be smiling in front of you but planning against you.

I have peace, power, love, and a calm and well balanced mind because I trust God. I don't worry about anything, instead, I pray about everything and God bless me by giving me His peace.

Monday, September 26, 2016

The Movement

They marched and they sacrificed to gain equality
Lives loss and many slain to fight and deliver us from injustice.
Slain by the hands of another race.
Their faces remain a memory in our history.
Today  we shame them in the many ways that we behave as if we've arrived when the war had never ceased. Looking for freedom and have become demolished in the chaos of injustices and unfair treatment. Deaths that have gone without justice.
To stand against the injustice we must unite and reform as we stand against this storm. together our blood becomes thicker.
We are like the Israelites against the Pharaoh we must not stray from the words of our father we are not only fighting for our justice but the justice of our daughters.
A mother has been left to weep over the countless slaughter.
Without a unity the future is grim we must pull together to develop and evolve our strengths against the evil in front of us because we all bleed red and deserve equality and justice.    


You're like a vulture seeking to find a heart to sink your teeth into.
Closed minded to opportunities and adding to you karma.
A motherless daughter
A heartless human being
If it isn't about you, you're unheard and unseen.
So close to your heart that it scared you.
Silence on my lips
Scars sown
This heart you no longer have a hold on
Time wasted not quite
I see your moves before you do
Try to play me like a fiddle but never seem to change the riddle.
Sweet on the exterior sour on the inside.
False representation
I can see your truths so you're no longer a temptation
I will  take change from this dollar and wait for a bigger denomination

Great things come to those who wait
What one doesn't cherish another will
Diamond in the rough soon to be shined

Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Quote of the Day

Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Good bye

Clear head no feelings I'm just  numb.
Numb to the game playing, beautiful lies and to your manipulation
For a minute I started contemplating thinking it was me
Couldn't have been me because i am the epitome of a woman and not a little girl 
I take responsibility and place it on another to make them feel guilt 
 I will admit for a minute you had me illin  
Realization finally set in, that this was something that truly had to end
You can love and just be friends

It wasn’t a mistake it was lesson learned
I did like Usher said and “let it burn”.
I was dedicated; that's something that I will admit.
 For me this is not a loss it  was an added benefit
In fact a stepping stone 
Another lesson that took place in my journey
My love is deep and I stayed true
Too bad your insecurities got the best of you  
Some call you crazy and tell me to run as far as I can
Even though it is over I completely understand that not everyone can handle the responsibility of another’s heart being placed in their hands.

So hear hear cheer to the what your nay sayers have said!
 Letting others opinions have left you in a lonely bed. 

Some people want love but can’t handle love. Relationships require dedication no game playing and manipulating. 

Monday, September 19, 2016

Free yourself from Settling and from Unnecessary Stress

We only live life once and because life is a one time journey and pass so quickly in time we must not waste it. 
We often waste our lives because we let the small stuff get us down, complain about what we don't have and wallow in depression. 
Life is a journey and we are here for a purpose. We must not settle in unhealthy relationships, hold grudges against others, and we must learn to appreciate those who are loyal and surround us. 
Tomorrow is not promised and often times the reality of this phrase hits us when its too late. It touches us when we have loss that loved one who we did not hug enough, call enough and forgot about because we were living our own lives and one day we awaken to find out they are no longer living. 

Love yourself more than the world does.

Don't chase after anyone who does not want to stay and stand by your side. 

No  one will love you like God does but don't settle for anyone who makes you forget that we are here for a spiritual purpose and make you feel as though you are less than you are worth. 

Tell those close to you that you love them, text, call, visit or find a way to communicate with them to tell them things while they are here and not waiting to say things to them when they are only here in spirit. 

Be generous and kind to others.

Don't dwell on the mistakes that you make a long the way just learn from them and become better at whatever it may have been. 

Surround yourself with those who will be with you through turmoil and happiness and when you get it keep a tight hold onto those people. 

Don't hold on to anger and stress it will take days off of your life. 

Wake up happy don't go to bed upset or with stress on your chest apologize, give it to God, let it go and be at peace with it. 

Love yourself ,love others, and form unity with others.  

Thursday, September 15, 2016

Why is it that in today's world that it seems as though we no longer care for one another?
We will see someone enduring harm and refuse to help, technology has been great but yet also a curse because many will record violence rather than stop it. There seems to be no more common courtesy and placing others before yourself even in situations a little as stopping for a pedestrian.There are very few young gentlemen who will hold a door for a lady or open a car door. What happen to loving one another?
Teachers use to care about teaching the students rather then counting down the time to dismissal. Teachers are no longer passing children because they've learned the fundamentals instead they are letting them fail or passing them on to the next grade to avoid dealing with them a second school year.

What happened to the parents who were helping and participating within the schools to ensure that the teachers had backup in what they were trying to instill in the student? It seems as though the parents of today are more concerned with getting the child out of the house for a few hours rather than ensuring that the child is going to school and learning in order to become successful in the future. There have been parents who are quicker to go to the school and fight a teacher for correcting their child instead of correcting their child and reassuring the teacher the the student will display better behavior.

In order to effect change we must start to change and learn to care about more than ourselves than living up to the Hollywood and Reality TV standards.

Families are no longer unified. There are no longer dinner table discussions and doing homework together. Instead there are more people eating while watching television, no longer discussing the events of the day, and parents cant account for where their children are or even no who they are socializing with. This needs to change. Life starts at home, respect is learned from the principles and values set in the home. Discipline starts in the home.

History is no longer being taught and racism has began to evolve and cause separations and divisions instead of all becoming united as one in order to become a better society.

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

You cannot move towards positivity holding on to negative baggage.

Thursday, August 18, 2016

Relationship Food for Thought

Do not place yourself in the position to play a puppet.
Take ownership of any faults that you may have, correct them and move forward.
Move forward with the attitude of completion or completion and understanding.
Completion being done with the puppet master or completion and understanding where the puppet master is no longer an puppet master and has taken the place of both parties being puppets.
Understanding that no one is in control.

Some of us fall victim to manipulation. Don't allow manipulation! If your torturer cannot become your remedy than let it be. True love survives and lust dies out.

People only do what it is that we have allowed them to do.
Sometimes we have to look at a situation in its totality and understand that we have to take out to power and control mechanism that we often have in our relationships.
We must learn how to get to know the person and love the person.
Understand that eventually the honey moon euphoria will be over and we will be left to see the flaws that we ignored or that did not show as much in the very beginning because we were in the "in love stage" of the relationship.

Can you love after the in love stage is gone?
Do you know how to love the person once the in love stage fades?
Do you know the person you are with?
Are you going to run?
Do you have a friend and confidant in this person?

If you said no to any of these questions the most important question at hand is this are you willing and can you handle committing yourself to having yes to all of these questions?

Everyone has flaws and baggage, but it is about whose flaws and baggage are you are willing to deal with?

There is no perfect relationship there are relationships that look perfect because there are two people there willing to put in the work.

Most of us go to relatives and friends with our hurts and situations and those family and friends will be there to support and they will have there own opinions on what you should and should not do because they have there own expectations for you and no one wants to see their family or close friend hurt but the truth of the matter is that the end result/decision lies in your hands. it is ultimately up to you on whether you deal with the problems and issues that another person has. it is often hard to make a decision when others have their hands in the pot because we end up caring about what another person thinks but others thoughts cannot determine your happiness only you as a person can determine your happiness.

Sometimes we should not allow others into our relationships but it happens.

Relationships today lack the getting to know and the willing to overcome obstacle recipe which is a main ingredient of developing and having a successful relationship.

You can add spices but without the main ingredients there is only water with taste. There is no meat or vegetable to give substance to the body.

Are you spiced water or substance?

Friday, August 12, 2016

Life after Love

I can only say that I have tried
Tried to be who you wanted me to be
Proceeding with caution during interactions to try and not get a negative reaction from you
What more can one do after they lose themselves trying to appease another
At some point you must let go
Love yourself more
When another cannot not love you for who you are then what is the point in loving them
Everything is not for everybody
It may hurt but broken hearts always heal with time

Thursday, August 11, 2016

Failure Is Should Not Be an Option

Many of us often want to pursue a goal but for some reason never follow through.
When we have goals to better ourselves we should never cease to go forth with it.
Some of us have hidden talents and instead of setting out to experience what we are passionate about we let procrastination set in or fear.
Fear nothing!
Go forth with what it it that you are passionate about. God did not bless you with it for  no reason.
If it is your destiny why not live out your purpose?

Failure occurs when we wait on others to push us, motivate us, and guide us.
Failure happens when we let fear take over and want things to happen over night without realizing that we have to put the work in.

Those who have become successful had patience, passion, drive, ambition, and was willing to put in the work and making sacrifices.

We cannot expect to hang out, sleep all day, talk about it day in and day out, but fail to start working on the goal.

Use every hour that you can in the 24 hour day that we have to succeed!

If you really want it, failure should not be an option!
Talking without action should not take place!

Be better and do better.