Learn your Partner

Relationships can sometimes become overwhelming. I have found that through reading and having and open mind you can change the feelings of being overwhelmed into feelings of security and love. Instead of becoming frustrated with your mate because you do not understand their behavior and changes try to look at yourself and self reflect.
Ask yourself if you have changed anything about how you have been engaging with them.for every action there is a reaction.
Is God in your relationship?
Do you study the word?
Are you both on the same page?

Make time to pray together and learn each other.
We often do not take time to listen and learn our mate. We often develop serious problems in our relationship because we haven't thoroughly listened to what it is that our mate needs to be fulfilled.
Stop trying to change them and learn how to accept them and love them pass the words I Love You.

If you cannot accept the little things about them you wont accept the unexpected things that may occur with them later on in the relationship and without acceptance there  will be no order, structure, or foundation.
Without those things you have no relationship. catch the things that you wont accept early and either leave or stay but if you stay then make sure that you are always communicating and have an understanding. You want to be on the same page and have the same level of understanding and learn to agree to disagree. we cant look for us in a person we are all different opposites attract and the attraction to the opposite is because it opens the door to balance.

Where I am weak you are strong and vice versa.

If you are looking for someone like you be ready to be alone because there is no perfect person YOU are not perfect and if that is the case DATE YOURSELF!

"Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.
Colossians 3:23

Tunnel Vision

I apologize if the tunnel vision I have on my goals discourages you.
However, your criticism encourages me;
It keeps me focused on my journey to freedom;
Living my life and not living through others in the shadows.
I will not make time to gossip about what everyone else is doing meanwhile sitting back earning and achieving nothing.
Why stand still when I can walk forward?
I apologize if my tunnel vision scares you from wanting to encourage me because you don't want to see me move forward successfully.
You'd rather me shop, gossip, and watch reality tv with you instead of be productive.
I thought that we were here to be productive.
Since humans were created we have always been productive, on missions, seeing visions, and focusing on our ambitions.
It seems as though many of us have become lax and wanting handouts and to do nothing more than to receive money for work we have not completed or even lifted a finger for
looking for handouts and feeding those who have a dream with discourage and doubt.

I will not be taken off from my focus even if it means the loss of friends because only on God can I depend to help me reach my goal in the end.